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Mark Stephen Lui

April 20, 1961 - January 28, 2025
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Elaine Yee

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Elaine Yee

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Mark Stephen Lui

April 20, 1961 - January 28, 2025

Mark Stephen Lui, 63, passed away in San Francisco, CA, on January 28, 2025. He was a beloved son, husband, father, brother, and friend and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Mark was born on April 20, 1961, in San Francisco, where he lived his entire life. In 1994, he graduated from the University of San Francisco with a Master's degree in Finance. For 25 years, he worked for the City and County of San Francisco in various finance roles across different divisions. Throughout his career, Mark was known for his generosity, warmth, and passion for helping others.

Above all, Mark was a devoted husband and father. He cherished spending time with his family, enjoying trips to Chicago, dropping off his younger son, John, at school in Fall 2024, celebrating Christmas 2023 in New Zealand, enjoying the beaches of Hawaii, taking trips to Vegas, and joining Elaine on her business travels throughout Asia and Europe. He also loved his adventurous Fall 2023 road trip with James, which they drove across at least 23 states from San Francisco to Toronto, Canada, and back. Mark enthusiastically supported his children's sports, attending their events from kindergarten through college. He served as the team videographer every basketball season, providing videos for the team to analyze and improve their skills and strategies.

A lifelong car enthusiast, Mark's first car was a Datsun 240Z, and he most recently purchased a Tesla Model 3. He enjoyed long road trips to Southern California, Death Valley, the Grand Canyon, and Monument Valley. He was multi-talented, able to change a clutch, fix light switches, manage annual finances, and organize almost anything.

Despite facing health challenges, including food allergies and type 2 diabetes, Mark remained determined to live fully, embracing joy and adventure. He often smiled and laughed with family, friends, and even strangers. In his passing, he helped those he did not know by becoming an organ donor, giving four other people the gift of life.

Mark is survived by those he loved dearly and often spoke of with pride: his wife, Elaine; his sons, James and John; his mother, Rose; and his siblings, Robert (and his wife, Lisa), Richard (and his wife, Ly), and Kristen Lui. He is reunited with his beloved father, Reverend Stephen Lui, who passed away in 2021. We will forever cherish Mark's life and memory. Let's raise our glasses to celebrate a life well-lived.

A Celebration of Life will be held in the summer of 2025. In lieu of flowers, our family requests that donations be made to the American Stroke Association, designating Mark Stephen Lui as the honoree. 

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Shayda Haghgoo Dear Lui Family, I share my condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. I worked on the same floor as Mark and loved catching up with him whenever we both happened to be in the office. He was such a proud father and husband. I really enjoyed my conversations with him. His outlook on life and parenthood was so positive. I hope you are surrounded by love and comfort during this time.
26 minutes ago

Geraldine de Leon Dear Elaine, James, and John - You've never met me before, but I worked with Mark for easily over a decade. Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. As my MTA colleagues have noted, Mark was a pleasure to work. We would end our meetings inevitably talking about "fun stuff": upcoming vacations, family events, etc. Please know he only ever talked lovingly about you all, and I could tell his happiest moments were time with his family. Mark reminded me to cherish family time. Please take care during this difficult time and cherish the memories.
about 3 hours ago

Lorena Guadiana As I read Mark's obituary, I am reminded of the beautiful human he was. I worked with Mark and recall him always encouraging. While Mark was seemingly serious sometimes, he definitely showcased his lighthearted personality during work lunch hours. I was impressed with all the wonderful memories he built with family as he once shared his adventures. I am sorry to hear of Mark's passing but also it warms the heart that he left behind life changing lessons to your family. Mark is a reminder of how one person can touch so many others positively both in the home and out. Please accept my condolences, may you find strength in each other and cherish Mark's legacy and teachings.
1 day ago

Mary J To Mark's Family, It has been a pleasure working with Mark these past almost 5.5 years. The love he had for you all was so evident. I enjoyed talking cars with Mark and appreciated the advice he would give me about work and about life. And one bit of advice that will always stick with me is before having one of my daughters Mark told me “soak in all the baby sounds you will miss them one day”. That advice stuck with me through the craziness of the newborn stage and I made an effort to soak up those moments more. I will miss Mark greatly. Sending my deepest condolences to you all. -Mary
3 days ago

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