Bridie Mary Acton passed away peacefully on April 7, 2025, at the age of 91. Born in Scartaglen, Ireland, Bridie emigrated to Canada in the late 1950s, where she met her beloved husband, Peter, at an Irish dance in Toronto. They were both proud of their Irish Catholic roots, which remained central to Bridie’s spirit throughout her life.
Bridie embraced life with a vibrant heart and an indomitable resilience. Her charm, quick wit, and endless hospitality left an impression on everyone she met. She especially loved hosting friends and family for a spot of tea and lively conversation (not to mention potent pina coladas). Those who knew her best would fondly warn newcomers: her kettle defied the laws of physics, and the heat of her tea mirrored the warmth of her heart.
A natural caregiver and community member, Bridie wore many hats throughout her life — from caring for children, to driving a school bus, and a volunteer for The Village of Petaluma. In her later years she was a passionate real estate professional in Marin and Sonoma counties. She took great pride in helping families find their homes, considering it both a calling and a joy. Bridie also gave generously of her time to her church in the capacity of an Eucharistic minster and offering guidance and compassion to those who were homebound and all who crossed her path.
Bridie was predeceased by her husband of 49+ years, Peter Acton. She is lovingly remembered by her children, Carmen Acton, Peter Acton, and Patrick Acton, and her cherished grandchildren, Nicole and Madison. Bridie was always surrounded by love, and her family is especially grateful for the exceptional care and kindness provided by the Caregivers, Med. Techs, and Staff at Windsong of Sonoma and the members of the Continuum Hospice team.
“Honor your grief, for it is sacred; it is a testament to the depth of your heart. And in time, through the pain, you will find healing — not because you have forgotten, but because you have learned how to carry both love and loss together.”